This year we will see over 30% of the UKs population making New Year resolutions only for 80% of them to fail two months into 2016. New Year’s resolutions have a bad reputation, with more of us falling off the wagon then staying on. One reason some of us fail is because we simply make promises we cannot keep.
For example, the most popular resolution in the UK is to lose weight, get fit or exercise your way into shape. We make the same resolutions year in year out and we fail for some common reasons. Firstly we fail to plan. How will you lose weight if you don’t dedicate time and energy to the task and plan ahead? Secondly, we don’t set ourselves smaller goals that will leap pad us all the way to achieving out final wish. If you want to get fit in 2016 then set some timed goals to monitor progress such as being able to run or walk a distance by March or to swim so many lengths per month. It will mean you are more likely to keep on track is you see improvements every week.
A lot of people make resolutions around work, usually they promise to change job, find a career they love, prioritize home life over work life or reduce stress. These are big and life changing resolutions and to achieve them the worker needs to make small steps.
- I want a promotion or pay rise
- I want to reduce stress
Secondly, don’t beat yourself up. We all get stressed, make mistakes, and sometimes we don’t know the answers. Take the ups and downs of work life and increased responsibility and remember that you do your best.
Third, find a means to relax. Your day may be full of complaining customers or demanding bosses but if you know that in the evening you get to switch off and go for a run or play some golf then keep this in mind and your day will go smoother. Ensure you make time for yourself and don’t miss these relaxation times.
- I want to improve my work-life balance
If you want to ensure your get some home time then rather than insist you leave on time try allocating work more sensibly. Perhaps delegating tasks or organising your time better so that you work more wisely. Keep meetings to a strict time frame, ask for help when required, and tell your boss if a project is going to run over and even plan your work out over your days using your calendar and stick to timed deadlines.
- I want to get on with my boss better
- I want a new job / career
If you are sure you want to leave then make sure you have a set criteria for the job you want. Do not end up taking another position that will ultimately make you unhappy because your feel desperate. List what role you would like, where it would be based, the salary, benefits and the environment. When pursuing that job think about how you can show you are the best candidate. You may dream of being a fire breather on £50k a year but firstly do you know how to breathe fire? And secondly what’s the going wage for an entertainer? Be realistic and if you haven’t got the skills or experience set goals to gain them.
Good luck with your work or personal resolutions for 2016. Remember to set small achievable goals that will be stepping stones to your ultimate achievements.
By Eugene O’Sullivan, Director of Morgan Pryce, commercial office space cannon street